On Cheating

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Re: On Cheating

Post by angryemperor » Sun Oct 14, 2018 11:36 pm

Cheating:

1. If your gut and/ mind says that there is some kind of injustice going on (e.g. you need to convince yourself that it's nothing, etc. Etc.)

2. Never reached that point.

3. Depends on the gravity of the situation. Even when given the chance for redemption, trust is harder to rebuild than building it in the beginning.

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Re: On Cheating

Post by spadikman » Fri Oct 19, 2018 10:59 pm

This is an opinion i got from a friend...If your partner gives you freedom to cheat,is there still love? You will think,ambait naman ng gf/bf or misis/mister ko, ok lang sa kanya na makipag-sex ako sa iba to make me happy...habang kabaligtaran naman sa iba na very possessive at gusto nila na para sa kanila lang yung katawan ng partner nila, sa sobrang selos,nang-aaway na at pag-iisipan ka pa na nambababae/nanlalalake na agad kahit di mo naman ginagawa...any comments?
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Re: On Cheating

Post by SaintSinner » Sat Oct 20, 2018 10:12 pm

Gabe wrote:
Sat Oct 13, 2018 7:18 am
Ang pag ESPA ba ay cheating?
Yep my question too..but my therapist today told me if there's no emotional attachment, hindi naman daw..hahaha

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Re: On Cheating

Post by crazy_viper2387 » Wed Oct 24, 2018 4:51 pm

SaintSinner wrote:
Sat Oct 20, 2018 10:12 pm
Gabe wrote:
Sat Oct 13, 2018 7:18 am
Ang pag ESPA ba ay cheating?
Yep my question too..but my therapist today told me if there's no emotional attachment, hindi naman daw..hahaha
Same dilema. I’m married man. Won’t deny it. I go for “massage” seldomly. Parang pag trip ko lang tlga. I dont know bakit ko rin gingawa. Is it for excitement? Honestly. Di ko rin alam. Pero I go thru this phase every 2-3months 😂

Kayo may symptoms din kayo na ganito??

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Re: On Cheating

Post by SaintSinner » Thu Oct 25, 2018 1:07 pm

crazy_viper2387 wrote:
Wed Oct 24, 2018 4:51 pm
SaintSinner wrote:
Sat Oct 20, 2018 10:12 pm
Gabe wrote:
Sat Oct 13, 2018 7:18 am
Ang pag ESPA ba ay cheating?
Yep my question too..but my therapist today told me if there's no emotional attachment, hindi naman daw..hahaha
Same dilema. I’m married man. Won’t deny it. I go for “massage” seldomly. Parang pag trip ko lang tlga. I dont know bakit ko rin gingawa. Is it for excitement? Honestly. Di ko rin alam. Pero I go thru this phase every 2-3months 😂

Kayo may symptoms din kayo na ganito??
I feel you bro but i have an excuse to do it cause my wife is preggy right now..we have needs too hahaha pero nung di sya buntis, ginagawa ko pa rin..im happily married but there something in me that makes me do it hahaha

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Re: On Cheating

Post by crazy_viper2387 » Thu Oct 25, 2018 1:45 pm

SaintSinner wrote:
Thu Oct 25, 2018 1:07 pm
crazy_viper2387 wrote:
Wed Oct 24, 2018 4:51 pm
SaintSinner wrote:
Sat Oct 20, 2018 10:12 pm


Yep my question too..but my therapist today told me if there's no emotional attachment, hindi naman daw..hahaha
Same dilema. I’m married man. Won’t deny it. I go for “massage” seldomly. Parang pag trip ko lang tlga. I dont know bakit ko rin gingawa. Is it for excitement? Honestly. Di ko rin alam. Pero I go thru this phase every 2-3months 😂

Kayo may symptoms din kayo na ganito??
I feel you bro but i have an excuse to do it cause my wife is preggy right now..we have needs too hahaha pero nung di sya buntis, ginagawa ko pa rin..im happily married but there something in me that makes me do it hahaha
Hahaha! Kala ko ako lang mga sirs. Honestly. Makwento ko lng. Kulit eh. Parang kasi pagkatapos ko gawin magiging sobrang sweet naman ako kay misis. Actually, napadalas din kasi nag preggy si misis and kapapanganak lang din. Kaya either busy siya lagi kay baby at mainit ulo. Kaya hindi ko na pinipilit gusto ko hahaha. Ayun nauuwi sa “massage” 😂

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Re: On Cheating

Post by SaintSinner » Thu Oct 25, 2018 9:38 pm

crazy_viper2387 wrote:
Thu Oct 25, 2018 1:45 pm
SaintSinner wrote:
Thu Oct 25, 2018 1:07 pm
crazy_viper2387 wrote:
Wed Oct 24, 2018 4:51 pm


Same dilema. I’m married man. Won’t deny it. I go for “massage” seldomly. Parang pag trip ko lang tlga. I dont know bakit ko rin gingawa. Is it for excitement? Honestly. Di ko rin alam. Pero I go thru this phase every 2-3months 😂

Kayo may symptoms din kayo na ganito??
I feel you bro but i have an excuse to do it cause my wife is preggy right now..we have needs too hahaha pero nung di sya buntis, ginagawa ko pa rin..im happily married but there something in me that makes me do it hahaha
Hahaha! Kala ko ako lang mga sirs. Honestly. Makwento ko lng. Kulit eh. Parang kasi pagkatapos ko gawin magiging sobrang sweet naman ako kay misis. Actually, napadalas din kasi nag preggy si misis and kapapanganak lang din. Kaya either busy siya lagi kay baby at mainit ulo. Kaya hindi ko na pinipilit gusto ko hahaha. Ayun nauuwi sa “massage” 😂
Yep gaya ko din sweet sweetan kasi guilt ridden..kung gnun nafifeel natin baka nga may nagagawa na tayong masama hahaha

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Re: On Cheating

Post by crazy_viper2387 » Tue Oct 30, 2018 1:04 pm

scarlett wrote:
Tue Oct 30, 2018 10:32 am
SaintSinner wrote:
Sat Oct 20, 2018 10:12 pm
Gabe wrote:
Sat Oct 13, 2018 7:18 am
Ang pag ESPA ba ay cheating?
Yep my question too..but my therapist today told me if there's no emotional attachment, hindi naman daw..hahaha
Syempre trabaho nila yun eh.

The question is, pagnalaman ba ng partner mo, magagalit ba sya?

At okay din ba sayo, na magkaroon sya ng ibang partner pero wala naman emotional attachment?
Ouch! Right in the feels. Siyempre hindi ok sakin yung ganun.
Napaisip tuloy ako bigla madam. 😅

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Re: On Cheating

Post by crazy_viper2387 » Tue Oct 30, 2018 1:48 pm

scarlett wrote:
Tue Oct 30, 2018 1:13 pm
crazy_viper2387 wrote:
Tue Oct 30, 2018 1:04 pm
scarlett wrote:
Tue Oct 30, 2018 10:32 am


Syempre trabaho nila yun eh.

The question is, pagnalaman ba ng partner mo, magagalit ba sya?

At okay din ba sayo, na magkaroon sya ng ibang partner pero wala naman emotional attachment?
Ouch! Right in the feels. Siyempre hindi ok sakin yung ganun.
Napaisip tuloy ako bigla madam. 😅
Hehehehe. Ganun naman talaga. Guys (sorry ha) don't usually think of the consequences of their action and how their partners would react. Kahit sabihin nyong walang emotional attachment yan, masakit yan. Ang matatanong na lang nila sa sarili nila is, hindi pa ba sya sapat?

Its because of the double standard of the society and how guys were raised in this country. ✌😂😃
Spot on madam. Aminado naman ako jan. True ang double standards satin. Pag lalaki ang gumawa or nagcheat nagbibigyan pa ng chance at norm na. Pag babae or girls gumawa parang napakasama na ng tingin or baba ng tingin sa kanila. Parang sasabihan pa na wala ng magpapakasal sayo or sira na buhay mo. SMH 😞💩

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Re: On Cheating

Post by SaintSinner » Tue Oct 30, 2018 11:30 pm

scarlett wrote:
Tue Oct 30, 2018 10:32 am
SaintSinner wrote:
Sat Oct 20, 2018 10:12 pm
Gabe wrote:
Sat Oct 13, 2018 7:18 am
Ang pag ESPA ba ay cheating?
Yep my question too..but my therapist today told me if there's no emotional attachment, hindi naman daw..hahaha
Syempre trabaho nila yun eh.

The question is, pagnalaman ba ng partner mo, magagalit ba sya?

At okay din ba sayo, na magkaroon sya ng ibang partner pero wala naman emotional attachment?
Hahaha yang yan yun sinabi sakin nung girl na friend/workmate/confidant ko..
Damn im cheating..sorry na di kasi sya pwde eh hehe

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