Why men cheat their wives?

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Re: Why men cheat their wives?

Post by ekips » Thu Aug 10, 2023 3:55 am

Ang tamang tanong ay.... Bakit ka mag settle sa isa? Lalake tayo, kung sundin mo sinasabi ng society problema mo na yan. Pero naturally, kahit ibang hayup, sumisibak ng more than one. Wala kang pakealam kung gusto sumibak ng madami ng ibang lalake. Sa natural lang ako at totoo. Di ko uunahin isatisfy ang ibang tao. Yung gusto ko any gagawin ko. Isang beses ka lang mabubuhay sa mundo tapos di mo pa gagawin gusto m. Eh tanga ka kung ganun.

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Re: Why men cheat their wives?

Post by boykidlat » Sun Aug 13, 2023 2:01 am

Theories ko lang. Feel free to disagree:

• May hinahanap si lalake na hinde maibigay ng babae. This is the simplest and most common reason.

• Kung PSPs at FUBUs lang trip ni lalake, the girl should somewhat feel ‘safe’ (or rather, should look at it as an easy problem to fix) as the guy is not necessarily ‘cheating’ on her but rather, naghahanap lang ng tawag ng laman na hinde maibigay ni babae. The girl should simply level-up her sexual skills to satisfy her man. I’m sure the man just looks at those PSPs as simply toys anyway – he just pays them their exact rate, no tip, doesn’t even give the PSP drinks/food, and after the agreed deed, decides to immediately part ways. His heart would still very much belong to his wife.

• However, kung si lalake ang habol nya kay kerida ay hinde lang kantot at dine-date na nya, ina-out-of-town/country trip nya, etc. etc…ibig sabihin, na-eenjoy nya kasama si kerida. Pag mas madalas magkasama si lalake and kerida, baka nga mas enjoy ni lalake ang company ni kerida kaysa kay babae.

• A probably rarer reason (but very, very understandable and very, very important) is maybe THE GUY DIDN’T REALLY WANT TO MARRY HER (OR GET MARRIED, IN GENERAL) IN THE FIRST PLACE. Now, how can this happen?

As you know, traditional Filipino culture dictates that a person’s path in life should be “graduate from school at late teens/early 20s --> get a job at early-to-mid-20s --> marry someone at mid-20s-to-early-30s --> have kids and a family by late-20s/early-30s.” or something along those lines.

It’s possible si lalake (and even si babae) felt pressure to abide by that tradition and thus, chose to marry the person that they feel they are closest/relatable to at that time. They probably never took the time to really get to know each other…nagkasundo lang on a few things at nagtawanan lang on a few jokes and sa tingin nila, they’re already meant for each other. This is a very, very common thing and definitely more common than most people realize. It’s actually one of the key reasons why a lot of marriages failed during the 80s and 90s (‘annulment’ was such a buzz word back then). Of course, people were more traditional back then. At least ngayon yung mga millennials talagang nagrreasearch na sila and they really take the time to look at all the nooks and crannies to see if a person is a worthy life partner. But not all millennials are like that, unfortunately.

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Re: Why men cheat their wives?

Post by SavageKid » Sun Aug 13, 2023 1:45 pm

boykidlat wrote:
Sun Aug 13, 2023 2:01 am
Theories ko lang. Feel free to disagree:

• May hinahanap si lalake na hinde maibigay ng babae. This is the simplest and most common reason.

• Kung PSPs at FUBUs lang trip ni lalake, the girl should somewhat feel ‘safe’ (or rather, should look at it as an easy problem to fix) as the guy is not necessarily ‘cheating’ on her but rather, naghahanap lang ng tawag ng laman na hinde maibigay ni babae. The girl should simply level-up her sexual skills to satisfy her man. I’m sure the man just looks at those PSPs as simply toys anyway – he just pays them their exact rate, no tip, doesn’t even give the PSP drinks/food, and after the agreed deed, decides to immediately part ways. His heart would still very much belong to his wife.

• However, kung si lalake ang habol nya kay kerida ay hinde lang kantot at dine-date na nya, ina-out-of-town/country trip nya, etc. etc…ibig sabihin, na-eenjoy nya kasama si kerida. Pag mas madalas magkasama si lalake and kerida, baka nga mas enjoy ni lalake ang company ni kerida kaysa kay babae.

• A probably rarer reason (but very, very understandable and very, very important) is maybe THE GUY DIDN’T REALLY WANT TO MARRY HER (OR GET MARRIED, IN GENERAL) IN THE FIRST PLACE. Now, how can this happen?

As you know, traditional Filipino culture dictates that a person’s path in life should be “graduate from school at late teens/early 20s --> get a job at early-to-mid-20s --> marry someone at mid-20s-to-early-30s --> have kids and a family by late-20s/early-30s.” or something along those lines.

It’s possible si lalake (and even si babae) felt pressure to abide by that tradition and thus, chose to marry the person that they feel they are closest/relatable to at that time. They probably never took the time to really get to know each other…nagkasundo lang on a few things at nagtawanan lang on a few jokes and sa tingin nila, they’re already meant for each other. This is a very, very common thing and definitely more common than most people realize. It’s actually one of the key reasons why a lot of marriages failed during the 80s and 90s (‘annulment’ was such a buzz word back then). Of course, people were more traditional back then. At least ngayon yung mga millennials talagang nagrreasearch na sila and they really take the time to look at all the nooks and crannies to see if a person is a worthy life partner. But not all millennials are like that, unfortunately.
Agree ako dito. Pero paps pag tawag ng laman di yu. Cheating? Sabihin natin na pleasure lang pero walang emotions.
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Re: Why men cheat their wives?

Post by Angel_jane » Thu Aug 31, 2023 8:36 am

Hala kau? ✌

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Re: Why men cheat their wives?

Post by Kharnall » Sun Nov 26, 2023 4:13 pm

there is a thrill of swimming dangerously
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Re: Why men cheat their wives?

Post by Jovin » Wed Dec 06, 2023 6:56 am

It's human/man nature. Ako nga nagsemenaryo pa but end up like.......... :) Hell is in earth, so enjoy life in hell :)

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Re: Why men cheat their wives?

Post by Icecoldbill » Tue Dec 12, 2023 12:19 pm

Kharnall wrote:
Sun Nov 26, 2023 4:13 pm
there is a thrill of swimming dangerously

+1 dito it's the thrill of the hunt ika nga
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Re: Why men cheat their wives?

Post by jaysonjao » Wed Dec 27, 2023 11:01 am

Ang motto ko naman dyan, "di ko naman mamahalin eh, titirahin ko lang"

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Re: Why men cheat their wives?

Post by Genesis1 » Sun Dec 31, 2023 2:21 pm

Isn't it interesting and ironic that the term GFE is so common in boards like this. "Girlfriend experience" and yet most men here are married or in a relationship. So the men don't get the GFE with their own GF or wife? If that's true then would it have been better to have stayed single?

Food for thought for new years eve 😉

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Re: Why men cheat their wives?

Post by Sabotage69 » Wed Jan 10, 2024 3:52 pm

Alam mo kung sinu pinakaloyal? Yung aso ko, si Summer.
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