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Yaan mo lang! Mag cheat ka din para even na kayo

Para sa akin 2 main drivers:

1. Ego - having sexual relationships make us feel dominant, powerful, thrilled, fulfilled - the more na makatikim o makakuha ka ng babae, the more na ramdam mo yung pagkalalaki mo. Somewhat primal instinct sya pero naglagay ng controls ang society at religion para magkaron ng peace and order.

2. Dissatisfacfion - yung nilagay na controls ng society natin (marriage), supposed to be ay magiging kuntento na tayo. Posible naman e - napapasaya ka ni misis, masaya ka sa pamilyang binubuo mo... Pero hindi sa lahat ng pagkakataon ganito ang nangyayari. Minsan meron kang gusto na hindi talaga maibigay ng partner mo or vice versa...

May kulang na hindi mabigay ng kanilang wife.

Read 5 Languages of Love, possible andun yung need mo punuin sa asawa mong lalaki if ever.

Please note that it goes both ways, as love is a 2 way street.

It is our nature. We look for change, for something different. It is not about our partner's shortcomings, our partner can be perfect and faultless, but we will still look for something else.

silentragexxx wrote: ↑

Sat Jul 01, 2023 12:11 pm

It is our nature. We look for change, for something different. It is not about our partner's shortcomings, our partner can be perfect and faultless, but we will still look for something else.

Awww

kahit anong explanation pa naten, for me babagsak parin tlga sa "Lust".

So many reasons why men cheats at depende sa tao. Pweding seek for love and attention, mayron naman sex addiction, sawa na, inpluwensya ng barkada at ung iba wala lang gusto lang nilang magloko trip lang. Pero choice pa rin yan. It's either you choose to do it or choose not to.

I think they want more and more. God is not the center of thre relationship.

long time lurker here. used to be engaged but ended it when she cheated on me. To be honest during my relationship I had urges but it was not a problem keeping it in control. " post nut clarity" haha. but its true. Men usually have this innate desire to fuck anything that moves. I almost slipped once with my x fiancé best friend. She stayed with us for a night because she was drunk. I guess it all boils down to how strong your mental game is. The urge will always be there.

I'm assuming it is also the same for women?

Ang tamang tanong ay.... Bakit ka mag settle sa isa? Lalake tayo, kung sundin mo sinasabi ng society problema mo na yan. Pero naturally, kahit ibang hayup, sumisibak ng more than one. Wala kang pakealam kung gusto sumibak ng madami ng ibang lalake. Sa natural lang ako at totoo. Di ko uunahin isatisfy ang ibang tao. Yung gusto ko any gagawin ko. Isang beses ka lang mabubuhay sa mundo tapos di mo pa gagawin gusto m. Eh tanga ka kung ganun.