Kharnall123 wrote: ↑Mon Jun 01, 2026 11:46 am
I Always fall for someone i know i cant be with . Wether its Status , position, insecurities .
any comments on this ? and how to overcome it ?
WHY DO WE FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE WE CANT HAVE.
Because sometimes, we fall in love with the **feeling, the possibility, and the person we imagine they could be**—not just with what the relationship actually is.
We can’t always control who our heart chooses. And when someone is unavailable, feelings can become even stronger because there’s **no closure, no ordinary reality to balance the fantasy, and so many “what ifs.”**
Sometimes we love them because:
- They made us feel seen in a way we desperately needed.
- The timing was wrong, but the connection felt right.
- We see qualities in them that we’ve been searching for.
- We’re attached to the possibility of *“maybe someday.”*
- Our heart doesn’t understand boundaries as quickly as our mind does.
But here’s the painful truth: **loving someone doesn’t mean you’re meant to have them.**
Sometimes the most sincere form of love is accepting that you cannot build the future you imagined with that person.
And if you’re someone who loves seriously, “just let it be” can feel almost impossible. You don’t want a taste—you want *forever*. So when forever isn’t possible, it hurts like you’re losing something you never even got to have.
**You can love someone deeply and still choose yourself.**
That doesn’t make your love less real. It makes your heart wiser.
