FALLING IN LOVE WITH A THERA

[Kharnall]

This is one of the very tricky part with our addiction . Over the years i thought I will never experience this sentiment , in fact in the past when i read some GM's who fell head over heels over a Thera , i pity them for not keeping their emotions in check . Too many pitfalls with very little advantages , however lately i realize that I have a very special infatuation to a certain Thera who pretty much occupies my waking moments . I keep telling myself that this is just an impasse, however as time goes by our communications are more frequent . Then i realize i am now a victim of the same circumstances .

Any thoughts on this ?

[Asyong]

Kakasabi ko lang dun sa dating site natin eh "been there, done that", pero mukhang heto na naman ako.

I usually check my emotions and keep it on balance para di na ako magkamali. Pero I think heto na naman ako.

Kaya iniiwasan ko kumuha ng number eh, kasi kapag tumatagal na conversation at nagkakakilala na kayo ng lubusan, nagsisimula na yung attachment.

Tama ka Sir Kharnall, we're just victims. Victims of the same circumstances.

Pero ngayon siguro eh wiser na tayo to handle yung mga ganitong bagay. Nakakadala din kasi. Siguro dapat magibg maingat lang at observe kung ano ba talaga. Baka kasi infatuation lang or eros form of love lang kasi talaga.

[3rdstrikeken]

As they say keep it professional mga pre. I get it na pamisan sobra ganda ni Thera gusto mo sya makilala pa and maybe ma solo pa dba. Pero hindi ka tatagal yan and baka magka problema pa para sa inyong dalawa.

[kaboooom]

Simulan niyo na ang pag-amin!

[Asyong]

Yes, yes and yes. 3 beses na. Di na natuto.

[skyline]

Yes. Pero not worth it.

[Freeman]

This topic could go a long way, everyone has a different opinion and point of view. As for me:

There is no perfect relationship. Lahat may flaws, lahat maypagadaanang problema. But as long as you have TRUST for each other and RESPECT each others feelings. Kahit ano pa man trabaho niya, thera or not. You'll be able to surpass anything.

For them being a thera is just work. PURELY work. For us it's really hard to trust them since sa nature ng work nila iba't ibang guys ang nkakasama nila in a span of an hour inside a small room with a dim light and bed. It all comes down to TRUST, RESPECT and being TRUE to the words you say to each other. Limitations should be set and be RESPECTED. Yes it hurts! To the point na minsan you'll doubt if she is really setting her limitations sa clients niya. But have you ever thought how they feel knowing that you are a GM and anytime you can go to a SPA and have another thera provide you the earthly pleasure you are seeking? Have you ever asked yourself how it feels for a thera na malalaman niya sa ibang thera or GM's na nagpahandle ka sa iba? Off course sasabihin natin na sila nga kung sino sinong GM/Client ang hinahandle nila, how come ako hindi pedeng magpahandle sa ibang thera? Am I right?

Again there is no perfect relationship. Thera or Not, GM or Not. Lahat may pagdadaanan yan. If falling in love with a Thera is hard, we should also know how thera feels falling inlove to GM's. Being a therapist or tagged as a thera is just a coincidence. Nagkataon lang na eto ang mundong napasukan nila. Let's not degrade the term Thera by how they do their job.

Just my two cent.

[Asyong]

I agree Sir Freeman. For them purely work lang talaga. And if sila papipiliin, mas gusto nila ibang work talaga or mag-abroad sila. I spoke with a lot of theras regarding their work, and there are times hirap na sila magtago tuwing tinatanong sila ng family, kapitbahay or mga kaibigan nila kung anong work meron sila.

Trust and respect lang talaga. It's a risk pero worth it kung talagang mahal nyo isa't isa.

On the other hand, just my opinion though and advice na din for both sides. May mga thera din kasi na nanamantala porket alam na gusto sila ng client nila. So pakiramdaman din dapat ng mga GM. Huwag bigay ng bigay. Learned that the hard way.

Sa mga theras naman, malaking sugal ang ma-inlove sa client nila. Kasi di nila alam kung totoo ba pinapakita or pinaparamdam sa kanila. At lalo na, kung totoong single yung client nila. So for the theras, double check nyo din kung single ba talaga or mahal talaga kayo ng client nyo. Hindi yung nilagawan kayo para makalibre ng es.

[Freeman]

I agree Sir Freeman. For them purely work lang talaga. And if sila papipiliin, mas gusto nila ibang work talaga or mag-abroad sila. I spoke with a lot of theras regarding their work, and there are times hirap na sila magtago tuwing tinatanong sila ng family, kapitbahay or mga kaibigan nila kung anong work meron sila.

Trust and respect lang talaga. It's a risk pero worth it kung talagang mahal nyo isa't isa.

On the other hand, just my opinion though and advice na din for both sides. May mga thera din kasi na nanamantala porket alam na gusto sila ng client nila. So pakiramdaman din dapat ng mga GM. Huwag bigay ng bigay. Learned that the hard way.

Sa mga theras naman, malaking sugal ang ma-inlove sa client nila. Kasi di nila alam kung totoo ba pinapakita or pinaparamdam sa kanila. At lalo na, kung totoong single yung client nila. So for the theras, double check nyo din kung single ba talaga or mahal talaga kayo ng client nyo. Hindi yung nilagawan kayo para makalibre ng es.

Totally agree. During the times na nagiikot ikot ako actively from spas and just doing plainly visit (minsan with service if I receive an invite) Kapag nkatambay na sa lobby (specially kapag may couch hehe). Sila sila mismo nagkukwento ng mga experiences nila sa mga GM's. Minsan yung iba nagcoconfess tlga na the reason they entertain that particular GM is because they get something from them. Some asks if I know a particular member and if I happen to know something about them. Yung iba naman naglalabas ng sama ng loob because some members take advantage of them. Liligawan, magpapakabait, magpapakita ng good deeds then once nakuha na gusto mawawalang parang bula. Sad to say all of this stories are true.

[YamYam]

Oo. Sa dating taga jetas at sa dating taga arcana. Kasi ung gfe is makatotohanan talaga.