FALLING IN LOVE WITH A THERA

[Bogleeman]

Ang helpful ng thread na toh pero ang hirap pag tinamaan. You tell yourself di mo na imemessage muna para mawala then mag tetext sya bigla kung Kamusta ka na. Ikaw naman excited mag reply tapos Di na sya mag rereply ulit dahil work na sya. Hay nakaka ulo Kahit ilang beses mo sabihan ang puso na huwag )

[Zeratul1]

Sorry to say but, Everyone has a price! You may have the persons attention for the moment as you have already payed for it, the moment that time is up, someone else is paying for their time and affection. move on!
Its best to invest your time and etc in someone outside the "biz".
You may or may not get lucky, but at least its an honest attempt at looking for love in the right place.

[Bogleeman]

True. First time after 5 years in here that I’ve been hit this way. I always maintained my distance but she just hit me hard. It’s not the deed but more of those little moments of sincerity that you feel you just want to know more about her beyond the walls of the spa.

But of course things will always be complicated, that’s why they remain anonymous. Then you will have the awkward conversation na papatigilin sya then it boils down to need. They are strong willed to get into this business and I’m sure they are strong willed enough to resist advances na ang dami dami from other GMs (including me)

Hay J. Sama ng tama ko sayo but it will just be complicated.

Sorry Kailangan lang mag labas mga sir hehe

[Anaconda]

They entered the business because of need if you want them to leave you need to provide for them . Thats the bottom line .. i fell in love once , i tried to make it work , i turned a blind eye to make the fantasy work while she remains in the business , i wanted her to quit but i could not give her what she needs , financially for her family and for her everyday needs ... i left for abroad to find better opportunity so i could provide for her and tried long distance but in the end she left me for another as she said she owes me everything but i wasnt there physically when she needed me so thats lesson learned. So guys unless you can give them what she needs just dont it willjust be hearthache .

[idiaz]

True. First time after 5 years in here that I’ve been hit this way. I always maintained my distance but she just hit me hard. It’s not the deed but more of those little moments of sincerity that you feel you just want to know more about her beyond the walls of the spa.

But of course things will always be complicated, that’s why they remain anonymous. Then you will have the awkward conversation na papatigilin sya then it boils down to need. They are strong willed to get into this business and I’m sure they are strong willed enough to resist advances na ang dami dami from other GMs (including me)

Hay J. Sama ng tama ko sayo but it will just be complicated.

Sorry Kailangan lang mag labas mga sir hehe

Can't be certain that they can resist advances. Sometimes, spur of the moment, lalo kung nag-click at nakagaanan ng loob ang isa't isa, things get very tempting even for strong willed persons.

Better talaga if you can keep the thera away from the industry. And as mentioned by Sir Anaconda in the previous post, you'll have to provide for the financial needs of the thera. Or at least recommend an alternative means for the thera to earn, tapos supplement mo yung kulang. But both of you must be okay with this arrangement.

Less complications talaga if we don't fall in love with a thera. But sometimes it's easier said than done, especially for certain very special therapists. Good luck Sir.

[Luciliby]

True. First time after 5 years in here that I’ve been hit this way. I always maintained my distance but she just hit me hard. It’s not the deed but more of those little moments of sincerity that you feel you just want to know more about her beyond the walls of the spa.

But of course things will always be complicated, that’s why they remain anonymous. Then you will have the awkward conversation na papatigilin sya then it boils down to need. They are strong willed to get into this business and I’m sure they are strong willed enough to resist advances na ang dami dami from other GMs (including me)

Hay J. Sama ng tama ko sayo but it will just be complicated.

Sorry Kailangan lang mag labas mga sir hehe

Can't be certain that they can resist advances. Sometimes, spur of the moment, lalo kung nag-click at nakagaanan ng loob ang isa't isa, things get very tempting even for strong willed persons.

Better talaga if you can keep the thera away from the industry. And as mentioned by Sir Anaconda in the previous post, you'll have to provide for the financial needs of the thera. Or at least recommend an alternative means for the thera to earn, tapos supplement mo yung kulang. But both of you must be okay with this arrangement.

Less complications talaga if we don't fall in love with a thera. But sometimes it's easier said than done, especially for certain very special therapists. Good luck Sir.

I second the motion.

[rhea mendoza]

goodmorning everyone..

[rhea mendoza]

I agree Sir Freeman. For them purely work lang talaga. And if sila papipiliin, mas gusto nila ibang work talaga or mag-abroad sila. I spoke with a lot of theras regarding their work, and there are times hirap na sila magtago tuwing tinatanong sila ng family, kapitbahay or mga kaibigan nila kung anong work meron sila.

Trust and respect lang talaga. It's a risk pero worth it kung talagang mahal nyo isa't isa.

On the other hand, just my opinion though and advice na din for both sides. May mga thera din kasi na nanamantala porket alam na gusto sila ng client nila. So pakiramdaman din dapat ng mga GM. Huwag bigay ng bigay. Learned that the hard way.

Sa mga theras naman, malaking sugal ang ma-inlove sa client nila. Kasi di nila alam kung totoo ba pinapakita or pinaparamdam sa kanila. At lalo na, kung totoong single yung client nila. So for the theras, double check nyo din kung single ba talaga or mahal talaga kayo ng client nyo. Hindi yung nilagawan kayo para makalibre ng es.

Totally agree. During the times na nagiikot ikot ako actively from spas and just doing plainly visit (minsan with service if I receive an invite) Kapag nkatambay na sa lobby (specially kapag may couch hehe). Sila sila mismo nagkukwento ng mga experiences nila sa mga GM's. Minsan yung iba nagcoconfess tlga na the reason they entertain that particular GM is because they get something from them. Some asks if I know a particular member and if I happen to know something about them. Yung iba naman naglalabas ng sama ng loob because some members take advantage of them. Liligawan, magpapakabait, magpapakita ng good deeds then once nakuha na gusto mawawalang parang bula. Sad to say all of this stories are true.

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[PrettySnow_10]

Wag na wag nyo gagawing mainlove sa thera.... MAGSISISI kayo ng husto!

Weeh! Sumama kana kase samen Haha!