WHY DO WE FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE WE CANT HAVE

[Kharnall123]

I Always fall for someone i know i cant be with . Wether its Status , position, insecurities .

any comments on this ? and how to overcome it ?

[pacboy]

human beings are naturally curious and not contented.

how to overcome? be contented and live below your means if you want to live peacefully.

[Kharnall123]

we always inspire to get the farthest apple
and that apple is harder to reach

[Hungry Daddy]

Those who want to be with me, I don’t want…I guess I don’t trust their motives are honest.

Those I want don’t trust that my motives are honest.

Overcoming this takes time and effort, If I solve the problem, I’ll let you know.

[Kharnall123]

unrequited love

[Tamibaby]

I Always fall for someone i know i cant be with . Wether its Status , position, insecurities .

any comments on this ? and how to overcome it ?

WHY DO WE FALL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE WE CANT HAVE.



Because sometimes, we fall in love with the **feeling, the possibility, and the person we imagine they could be**—not just with what the relationship actually is.

We can’t always control who our heart chooses. And when someone is unavailable, feelings can become even stronger because there’s **no closure, no ordinary reality to balance the fantasy, and so many “what ifs.”**

Sometimes we love them because:
- They made us feel seen in a way we desperately needed.
- The timing was wrong, but the connection felt right.
- We see qualities in them that we’ve been searching for.
- We’re attached to the possibility of *“maybe someday.”*
- Our heart doesn’t understand boundaries as quickly as our mind does.

But here’s the painful truth: **loving someone doesn’t mean you’re meant to have them.**
Sometimes the most sincere form of love is accepting that you cannot build the future you imagined with that person.

And if you’re someone who loves seriously, “just let it be” can feel almost impossible. You don’t want a taste—you want *forever*. So when forever isn’t possible, it hurts like you’re losing something you never even got to have.

**You can love someone deeply and still choose yourself.**
That doesn’t make your love less real. It makes your heart wiser. ‍