FALLING IN LOVE WITH A THERA

[MyFriend]

ive fallen and I cant get up and clear my head. It has been a sack of confusing feelings and emotions. Happiness, jealousy, anger, disgust, misery, heartache... then again happiness.

weve been together for 6 months and the last 3 months did not involve money anymore kaya I felt the relationship is real and sincere. She said its ok if I didnt give her money because she didnt want me thinking that im just her milking cow. Pero yun pa rin yun negative emotions and feelings which is stressful that affects my mental and physical health. Im happy I have her but I am angered of the situation. Kung ikaw ako ano gagawin mo?

[pacboy]

ive fallen and I cant get up and clear my head. It has been a sack of confusing feelings and emotions. Happiness, jealousy, anger, disgust, misery, heartache... then again happiness.

weve been together for 6 months and the last 3 months did not involve money anymore kaya I felt the relationship is real and sincere. She said its ok if I didnt give her money because she didnt want me thinking that im just her milking cow. Pero yun pa rin yun negative emotions and feelings which is stressful that affects my mental and physical health. Im happy I have her but I am angered of the situation. Kung ikaw ako ano gagawin mo?

hahha been there done that..

ayaw ko na balikan. goods na sa memories. hahaha

[P(i)nto41?]

Enjoy the moment while it last because nothing is certain.

[jerichopalma]

ive fallen and I cant get up and clear my head. It has been a sack of confusing feelings and emotions. Happiness, jealousy, anger, disgust, misery, heartache... then again happiness.

weve been together for 6 months and the last 3 months did not involve money anymore kaya I felt the relationship is real and sincere. She said its ok if I didnt give her money because she didnt want me thinking that im just her milking cow. Pero yun pa rin yun negative emotions and feelings which is stressful that affects my mental and physical health. Im happy I have her but I am angered of the situation. Kung ikaw ako ano gagawin mo?

Tigilan mo na.. I'm slowly getting over with my no label, kasi kung itutuloy mo pa di ka man lumubog financially, matatalo ka ng emosyon mo. Unless you're rich enough to get her out of the biz. In my case hanggang doon na lng cguro, alam ko yun hindi nman ako tanga.. hinahayaan ko lang kasi gusto ko.. I am fully aware of the situation, nagiging tanga talaga ang tao pag nangingibabaw ung nararamdaman kahit alam nman nya na hindi tama.. I want to show her na tanggap ko nman sya pero still client - thera pa din ang relationship nmin.. lumalabas kmi.. natutulog na walang nangyayari all expense paid (food, gas, toll, hotel/motel, vl/sl just to be w/her when nagda drama) to show my respect.. kht konting hug or cuddle sa bed di magawa then di nga ako mai add man lng sa messenger man lang. Tpos impose pa na self care/love e may ka chat sa messenger ng palihim kala nya di ko nakikita, hopefully mahalin at di sya saktan nun lalo na pag nalaman nya ung totoo sa kanya.. a lot of sponsorship w/ benefits, may scandal pa.. talagang npapakinabangan ung itsura.. well di nman na din sya ganun ka fresh unlike before.

[jerichopalma]

Di naman masama mag mahal ng tulad namin diba?

Yes di naman pero case to case basis pa din e.. may mga thera na sobrang napo fall sa client/guest yung tipong nagiging sugar mommy na sya nung client/guest, sya ung gumagastos, pumu punta etc.. pero mostly ng napo fall is mga GM.. kahit iparamdam nya na tanggap at mahal nya si thera pero ung latter it's all purely business kahit pa sabihin nya na di sya transactional pero at the end of the day ganun pa din yun.

Hirap humanap ng katapat na both kayo makikinabang, it's just finding needle in a haystack..

[Butosay]

This topic could go a long way, everyone has a different opinion and point of view. As for me:

There is no perfect relationship. Lahat may flaws, lahat maypagadaanang problema. But as long as you have TRUST for each other and RESPECT each others feelings. Kahit ano pa man trabaho niya, thera or not. You'll be able to surpass anything.

For them being a thera is just work. PURELY work. For us it's really hard to trust them since sa nature ng work nila iba't ibang guys ang nkakasama nila in a span of an hour inside a small room with a dim light and bed. It all comes down to TRUST, RESPECT and being TRUE to the words you say to each other. Limitations should be set and be RESPECTED. Yes it hurts! To the point na minsan you'll doubt if she is really setting her limitations sa clients niya. But have you ever thought how they feel knowing that you are a GM and anytime you can go to a SPA and have another thera provide you the earthly pleasure you are seeking? Have you ever asked yourself how it feels for a thera na malalaman niya sa ibang thera or GM's na nagpahandle ka sa iba? Off course sasabihin natin na sila nga kung sino sinong GM/Client ang hinahandle nila, how come ako hindi pedeng magpahandle sa ibang thera? Am I right?

Again there is no perfect relationship. Thera or Not, GM or Not. Lahat may pagdadaanan yan. If falling in love with a Thera is hard, we should also know how thera feels falling inlove to GM's. Being a therapist or tagged as a thera is just a coincidence. Nagkataon lang na eto ang mundong napasukan nila. Let's not degrade the term Thera by how they do their job.

Just my two cent.

This!

Oh well, ikanga.. to each his own.

At tulad ng binanggit dito ni Sir @Freeman; wala naman masama na magmahal sa kanila.. basta may respeto, at alam ang limitasyon ng bawat isa.

[yakicebu]

Nang ma inlove ako sa thera kala ko'y pag-ibig ko ay tunay..